Corporate Speaking & Events

The men in your organisation who look fine

Male midlife is an overlooked workplace transition. It can appear as disengagement, withdrawal, overwork, a loss of direction, or an experienced man quietly questioning everything he has built.

The Hades Effect gives men language for what they may be experiencing, while managers and HR gain a practical framework for recognising and responding to it.

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The workplace blind spot

Men are often described as reluctant to talk about their mental health. But it is difficult to discuss something you do not recognise or know how to describe.

Many men reach their forties and fifties knowing that something has changed, but without the awareness or language to understand it. They continue working, leading and carrying responsibility. From the outside, everything can look fine.

At work, the transition may sometimes appear as:

Male midlife does not explain every performance or wellbeing issue. But when it is present, both the organisation and the man himself can miss what is happening.

Poor mental health is estimated to cost UK employers £51 billion each year, with £24 billion attributed to presenteeism (Deloitte, 2024).

Read Jonathan's HR Magazine article

A map for the transition

Jonathan Flynn's corporate wellbeing session introduces The Midlife Map, his proprietary framework for understanding and navigating the male midlife transition.

Jonathan combines research, 25 years of corporate experience and his own lived experience to explain what may be changing and what constructive action can look like.

The Map moves through three stages. Beneath each sits the work that actually drives it.

Descent

An honest look at what has changed and why. This is where a man first sees the transition for what it is.

The work begins with a decision: to stop and look honestly, rather than push on and hope it passes.

Ownership

Understanding has to become action. Support can be available, but the man must take responsibility for what happens next.

The work becomes action: taking accountability and building on solid ground rather than waiting to be rescued.

Emergence

The second half, approached with intent. Not a return to who he was, but a deliberate step towards who he chooses to become.

The work becomes discipline: consistently keeping the promises you make to yourself, long after the motivation fades.

Decision. Action. Discipline.

What the session provides

A structured 60 to 90 minute session, tailored to your organisation and delivered virtually or in person.

Men gain

  • Awareness of the male midlife transition
  • Language for experiences that often remain unspoken
  • A way to understand where they may be on the Midlife Map
  • A more constructive perspective on the second half of life

Managers gain

  • A framework for recognising what may sit beneath changes in behaviour
  • Greater confidence in starting appropriate conversations
  • Awareness without being expected to diagnose or counsel

HR gains

  • A practical framework for an overlooked workplace issue
  • An opportunity to encourage earlier conversations
  • Clear considerations for supporting men through this stage of life

The purpose is not to diagnose or treat. It is to provide awareness, language and a practical way forward.

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Session options

Core session

  • 60 to 90 minutes
  • Tailored to your organisation
  • Virtual or in person
  • Introduction to The Midlife Map
  • Practical tools and audience discussion

Premium session

Everything in the core session, plus:

  • Anonymous live Midlife Check-in
  • Tailored written summary for HR
  • Practical observations and suggested next steps
  • 30-minute HR debrief

No individual responses are identified or shared.

Pricing is provided following an initial conversation about your audience and objectives.

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Experience that makes the subject relatable

Jonathan spent 25 years in executive recruitment, working alongside C-suite and director-level leaders through career decisions, organisational change and professional transition.

He developed The Midlife Map after navigating his own midlife transition and finding no framework that adequately explained the complete experience.

Today, Jonathan works privately with chief executives and senior leaders, and with organisations seeking to understand and support men through midlife.

Creator of The Midlife Map MHFA England accredited Featured in HR Magazine 25 years alongside senior leaders Lived experience of the transition

"Jonathan is an outstanding speaker and deeply knowledgeable on the subject of midlife men, the challenges they face and what to do about it."

Andy RadcliffeCEO, The Esh Group

"It's the first thing I've read that has helped me fully understand exactly where I'm at and why I feel like I do."

Craig SmithSenior Commercial Leader, on The Midlife Map

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A concise four-page overview of the workplace evidence, The Midlife Map and what the corporate session includes.

Your details go to Jonathan only, so he can follow up. No mailing lists, no sharing.

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Arrange a 20-minute conversation with Jonathan to discuss your organisation, your audience and whether the session is right for your people.

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Midlife is not a crisis. It is an opportunity.

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